Before you cheat...

Gregory Burrowes, Contributor

IF YOU really love someone why cheat? Is it because cheating is fun? Or is your partner not good enough for you? It seems puzzling sometimes when a man or woman cheats on their partner and views it as nothing to be concerned about.

So why do people cheat?

"Most men cheat because, their partner isn't good enough for them, and cheating is fun!," says 34 year old accountant Michael Gray.

One female reveals that, she would only cheat, "if mi man nah treat mi good."

"A so him would a get bun, but to just cheat without a reason seems to be stupid and foolish."

On the other hand, some people cheat because it's fun, and they like to experience the different types of lovemaking. For example, a woman will cheat if she is not getting the right 'loving' at home. If this is the case, then chances are, she is going to find someone on the side to do the job properly. So if you find that your partner is boring, or you feel that he's not good enough for you, don't just go out there to find someone else to satisfy you, make sure that the person loves you as much as you do love them. But we Jamaicans should try to stick to one person, because Mr or Mrs Right might be quite far away, and sexually transmitted diseases are on the rise.

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