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Keisha Shakespeare-Blackmore, Staff Reporter

"Does he love me, I wanna know. How can I tell if he loves me so?..." The lyrics of Cher's 'In his Kiss' (known as the Shoop Shoop song)

Often, when it comes to men and love, this song depicts what some (or even most) women ponder about the man they are with or interested in having a relationship with.

However, when it comes to men, there is no clear-cut answer to tell when he is in love with you. Though women often have a clearer view as to whether or not they are in love with a man, men, on the other hand, tend to test the waters several times before actually committing to one woman, who they deem 'the one'.

Dalebelieves that it is after the initial attraction that a man truly falls in love.

"It's when he realises that he has met someone who shares his ideals. He realises that this is someone he can trust, be open with, (someone who) encourages him, and is honest with him," he notes.

Paul, on the other hand, thinks that there are many different things that make a man fall in love.

"It may be money, lust, togetherness, beauty, sex, children or just that they fall for the person. I think it varies based on circumstances and the individuals involved," he says.

Whatever the reasons, each couple will have a different experience because there is no set guide to follow. You will just have to take it day by day and see what happens.

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Signs he may be into you

• He calls you for no immediately perceivable reason
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• He sounds excited when you call him
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• He always wants to be around you
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• He maintains heavy eye contact during conversations
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• He talks to others about you