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The attitude of gratitude

Published:Sunday | January 5, 2025 | 12:07 AM

Gratitude is often mistaken as merely saying thank you, but it is far more profound. It is an attitude that allows us to see the good in everything. While many of us start our mornings with gratitude, it often fades quickly as we focus on unfulfilled desires or problems. Developing this attitude requires conscious effort and a shift in perspective.

START WITH YOURSELF

Gratitude begins by appreciating what we have – a healthy body, a positive mind, and the simple joys of life. Often, our energy is drained by focusing on flaws: a little weight gain, strained relationships, or business setbacks. These distractions shift our attention to life’s fluctuations rather than its blessings.

Gratitude is not dependent on circumstances. Rather, it is a choice, a vibe we create. It is tempting to withhold gratitude when life feels imperfect, but the truth is that our inner attitude shapes external circumstances. By fostering gratitude, we invite positive changes into our lives.

THANK THE UNNOTICED

One of the greatest forms of gratitude is appreciating those who challenge us. People who test our patience, kindness, and positivity push us to discover our hidden strengths. They unknowingly help us grow into better versions of ourselves by enhancing our resilience and reducing our negativity.

Gratitude extends to the simple objects that support our daily lives – the bed we sleep in, clothes, the car we drive, and even mundane items like shoes, your chair, or your stove. These objects often go unnoticed but play vital roles in our well-being. Recognising their value reflects an attitude of respect and thankfulness, which strengthens our core.

SHAPE YOUR CIRCUMSTANCES

Often, we focus on what we lack: having no time, poor health, insufficient wealth, or strained relationships. This scarcity mindset leads to rejection of the present and fosters dissatisfaction. Instead, make a conscious effort to create a new list of blessings. You may find that you have ten times more assets than limitations. By focusing on what we have and appreciating it, we cultivate acceptance and joy.

GRATITUDE TRANSFORMS LIFE

Gratitude is not merely a polite gesture. It is a powerful attitude. When we fail to practise it, we risk falling into cycles of comparison, criticism, and complaint. A lack of gratitude creates rejection of the present moment, leading to deeper consequences in our overall joy in life.

Start small. Express verbal appreciation for the little things, and let this habit grow. Gratitude doesn’t just change your perspective. It transforms your life. By consciously looking at what we have and being thankful, we shift our focus from lack to abundance, creating a ripple effect of positivity and fulfilment. This year, let us embrace gratitude each day as it changes our whole life.

Courtesy: Rajyoga Meditation Centre, Kingston (meditation courses and counselling are offered free of charge). Get in touch via email: bkmeditation.jam@gmail.com or WhatsApp: 876-853-7848. Follow them on Instagram: rajyoga_meditation_jamaica.